Reconciling with a Friend you have Wronged

There are times where we've wronged our friends or the opposite. In our Worldview class we learnt on how to reconcile with a friend that we have wronged. Is it useful to us?

Vania:
I've wronged a friend before and instead of ignoring it, I decided to do something about it so that we could be friends again in the future. We forgave each other and we've been better friends since. What I did was:

1. Talk about our problems and listen to each other's feelings
2. Pour everything out and don't keep anything in as it will cause more trouble
3. Forgive each other
4. Promise each other that no secrets will be kept so the same thing won't happen in the future.



Artlover:
Okay, all these things we learn in world view class, does it actually work? Come on the world is cruel. You say sorry to a friend, they say yea yea it's fine. Next thing you know. Boom.

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You're right boom. boom boom boom. They talk behind your back, you do to. You still kinda hate each other. So what can you do? No, is there actually anything you can do? In some cases maybe not, maybe only time is the solution, and it can take many, many, many years.

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Or even till the day you day even. Who knows?
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So, what do you do? Well my suggestion is, don't expect much, acknowledge that you are wrong, but you have the rights to be forgiven. Tell the person you're sorry but don't be their slave. Know your value. Simple. As. That. 


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